JIWA KACOOOOOO...

    KEEP UR DISTANCE FAR AWAY FROM THOSE

GUYS...

THEY DON'T EVEN CARE BOUT YOU...

WHERE'S YOU DIGNITY...

STOP IT!!!

OR

YOU WILL ONLY ASHAMED YOURSELF..

SERIOUSLY!!!!!

WAKE UP!!!!!!

STUPID HEART!!

STUPID DESIRE!!

THEY DON'T LOOK AT YOU OK!!!

JUST FOCUS ON YOUR STUDY!!

EVEN THOUGH NO ONE CARE BOUT YOU!!

YOU'RE NOT PRETTY ENOUGH OR EVEN ATTRACTIVE..

YOU JUST A BORING PERSON..

N

ANNOYING PERSON TO THEM...

nangis!!??

bole tak kalo aku nak nangis tuk sekejap jer psl benda ni...

this thing is killing me softly...

never thought that i will take it seriously..

day by day..

week by week..

i just wish a miracle can happen without me knowing it..

tell me that i still live in the wonderland..

i don't care...

i just want to be myself...

no pressure like this..

penat dowh...

serious....

HUh

ramblingggggggg

people seems to think they understood what the other situation,

sadly,they don't...

they don't put their selves in the other shoes..

a person that always smile and always strong..

actually the weakest person and the loneliest person,

they try to keep their feelings because they still think about the other pride,

the other feelings,

they hope the other can understand can believe them..

but sadly the others only give them an insulting comment,

that make them look as they are the betrayer,

the puppet,

do they think about their friendship..

i strongly believe they don't...

i am so frustrated with ot5..

seriously!!!

what you says never the same with what you do..

it hurt so much to listen and to watch the harsh comment,

they only keep silent and be patient,

i am proud of them because they still keep the pride of their friendship,

maybe the had to be cautious and put away their emoptions,

and it hurt thems so much,

thats why i am proud of them,

because they never give comment that make the others look bad,

they only talk about the future,

i just hope the future and the world be nice to them,

they only want to bring a smile to people,

they learn so many things,

 they endure so many hardship,

they put away their feelings for others,

they became selfness,

i pray so hard for them,

 for they happiness and success,

please show the worlds that they can stand,

please!!please!!!

new place,new life and new story..

had been busy lately....

THANKS AND BE GRATEFUL TO ALLAH...

i had been given opportunities to futher my studies...

WHERE???

.

.

.

.UNIVERSITI TEKNOLOGI MARA SHAH ALAM....(UiTM)

course AS201,BACHELOR OF BIOLOGY...

memang bersyukur tahap giler lar n i promise not to main2..

life kat sini memang hectic sangat2..

and i also learn the new thing(sososososo many):

1. to be really2 patient with those annoying, temperant and brag person
2. to manage my money properly and to study properly
3. PHYSICS!!!!
4. ..................................................................................................

since i entered this i start to feel insecure about myself,

i doubt my credibilities,

i doubt myself from many aspect,

such as study,appearance,social skill n mny more..

sometimes i just need to be a really2 positive

to make sure that i can survive in this harsh condition...

i still can't find a friend like matric's friend..

i miss them so much,

they never discourage me in any word, any aspect,

they keep supporting me..

but no matter what i have to be strong 

eventhough have to plastered a smile and

neglect my feelings and my thought..

i believe i can do it!!!!

got to go,

hug and kisses.

gosh,he now is in list of my sunshine other than my parents,my family,my cousins n my bff...

salam~

chaos..

i think i am ruining myself...

i get headache very easily....

i cough very often.....

n 

 i waste my tears every hour......

i just want they to be one again...

is that a sin???...

no doubt that i adore them very much....

as time flew away....

thought thing could been better..

but the worse keep be the future...

not between them but the one that overdose to them...

badmouth,cursing and bashing...

seems like a hobby to them...

so, i wish i see those star to stand again TOGETHER!!...

to show to those that even their heart cannot resist the fact that...

they love each other....

GOD, please make them be together again..,

please make them realize that they make a mistake..

and please make them be brother again.....T_T

a word for a day..

SALAM~

•    But a man should do his best once he has started something whatever the results. I don’t want to have any regrets. I do stick to something to the end to make it a good memory once I have started it.

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•  Good appearance doesn’t make a real man. The important thing is to do your best to keep your promises. A real man should show his faith in action than words.
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  i don't understand why people bashing each other....
  
  
  it's ok when we hate or dislike the person...
  
  
  but,
  
  
  to harm an hurt the person it just not so right...
  
  
  god created us so we can remind each other..
  
  
  in terms of bad and good..
  
  
  and it's true that a man should hold his promise
  
  
  because god never blessed a person that broke her/his promise..
  
  

what else can i say..XD!!

smile like a fool for all days..kyaaaaa!! XD..






my fangirling hormones are over the top...




8 years and onwards..yakso!!






maybe marry a man like you..sigh..








naaaaahh...u're one in a million..

gyahahahaha........XD..

wish i meet a guy that has some side of you...XD..

okay!should stop rite now..

or my hormones can overdose me....

........................................

current mood: pray for my upu!!

women?shampoo fragrance??

shampoo ga dwego shipeo
geudae ye meori karake na heulleo naerimyeo
jiteun naye hyanggiro, geudareul gamssago shipeo yo
dareun hyanggireul, sarang haet damyeon
ijen jiwo beoryeo yo (jiwo beoryeo yo)
sesange eobtneun hyanggi deullo neol yeongwonhi neol chwi hage hal geoya

hokshi neo byeol byeol byeol iyuro, nareul seulpeuge hamyeon
neoye nuneul tta gabge hal geoya
hajiman byeol byeol byeol iyuro, nareul gippeuge hamyeon
on momeul da gamssa julsu isseo
geo uldo neoreul boji mot hage, hayan geopum deullo ni
on momeul da gamssa beoril geoya
amudo neoreul gajji mot hage, nareul mudhyeo dul geoya
nae hyanggi neun ji ulsu eobseul geol

cheoeum neol bwasseul ttae
neo ege, punggi neun hyanggi ga neomu shilheosseo
jigeum kkajin da ijeo
ije nae, hyanggiman mudhillae

ibsuri sarangeul yaegi hal ttaen, geuttaen uri sarangeun the end
niga naege bbajyeosseul ttae, geuttaen ilcho do neomu gireo
tik tok, yu tok, wi tok, uri shiganman jakku heureugo
nae gaseumi teojil geotman gata, na ireon niga miwo

hokshi neo byeol byeol byeol iyuro, nareul seulpeuge hamyeon
neoye nuneul ttab gabge hal geoya
hajiman byeol byeol byeol iyuro, nareul gippeuge hamyeon
on momeul da gamssa julsu isseo

maeil maeil gidaryeo
i sunganeul saranghae
ni son giri daheumyeon
urin dashi fantaji

neoye barami bundamyeon naneun barame nallyeo ga
nun mure sshitgyeo ga, ni gaseumeun tteulhryeo ga
ni hyanggi ga dwel geoya, bbeonhan hyanggineun Good Bye
bbeonhan sarangdo Good Bye, nae hyanggiman yeongwonhi

hokshi neo nareul apeuge hamyeon, nareul seulpeuge hamyeon
neoye nuneul tta gabge hal geoya
amudo neoreul gajji mot hage, nareul mudhyeo dul geoya
nae hyanggineun ji ulsu eobseul geol

hokshi neo nareul apeuge hamyeon, nareul seulpeuge hamyeon
neoye nuneul tta gabge hal geoya
amudo neoreul gajji mot hage, nareul mudhyeo dul geoya
nae hyanggineun ji ulsu eobseul geol

hajiman byeol byeol byeol iyuro, nareul gippeuge hamyeon
on momeul da gamssa julsu isseo
geo uldo neoreul boji mot hage, hayan gapum deullo ni
on momeul da gamssa beoril geoya

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Romanized lyrics done by me! Colour coding by JaeSeong with help from samm & Dean08 (see comments)!
So if you take these lyrics, please credit me here!

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Translation:

I want to become shampoo, flowing down your hair
I want to cover you with my thick scent
If you used to like other scents, erase them now
I’ll make you drunk with all the scents in the world that don’t exist

If you, star-star-star, ever make me sad
I’ll make your eyes sting
But if you, start-star-star, make me happy
I can cover your whole body so the mirror can’t see you
I’m going to cover your whole body with white foam
I’m going to bury myself in you so no one else can take you
You can’t erase my scent

The first time I saw you, I hated the scent surrounding you
Now forget everything, I only want to bury my scent

The moment my lips say “I love you,” it’s the end
The moment you fell for me, even one second’s too long
Tick tock, you talk, we talk
Time is going by and my heart’s going to burst
I hate myself when I’m like this

If you, star-star-star, ever make me sad
I’ll make your eyes sting
But if you, start-star-star, make me happy
I can cover your whole body so the mirror can’t see you
I’m going to cover your whole body with white foam
I’m going to bury myself in you so no one else can take you
You can’t erase my scent

I want everyday-everyday, I love this moment
When we touch it’s a fantasy

When your wind blows I get swept away by it
Tears wash me, my heart is drilled, I’ll be your scent
Obvious scent goodbye, obvious love goodbye
Only my scent forever

If you hurt me, if you make me sad
I’ll make your eyes sting
I’m going to bury myself in you so no one else can take you
You can’t erase my scent
If you hurt me, if you make me sad
I’ll make your eyes sting
I’m going to bury myself in you so no one else can take you
You can’t erase my scent

But if you, start-star-star, make me happy
I can cover your whole body so the mirror can’t see you
I’m going to cover your whole body with white foam

        after school~

                      shampoo~

i'm kinda agree with the song..they relate women with shampoo..on my opinion every woman has their kind own of fragrance..every person difference have their own label of fragment..that make every person differ from other..if you found the perfect ingredient in your life,you can make the likeable fragrance and vice versa..it our life, choose our own brand our own label..so what kinda shampoo you want to be? it's up to you..

salam~

with love~

STUPIDIOST CARELESS MISTAKE~~

OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!

i had make a huge mistake~~

huhuhuhu.....

hope he doesn't know bout this~~

SAVE ME~~

Saengilchukahamnida~~

happy birthday to yoochun dbsk~~

kerja!!

at last aku ade juga keje..the work is sbgai HOUSEMAID..ahahaha,amcam best tak...myb keje aku sng ckit kot dari org len coz aku keje kat umah sedara sndiri,so org pk sng lar...hahahaha..anda salah,yelah kalo ko pk tu umah parents ko ye lar sng, nak mengelat wat cincau bincau,,ni umah org len deh..seyes aku btol2 jadi org gaji. tp best coz kat sini org yg aku kenal en, blaja masak blaja mengosok baju laki, blaja bsuh baju guna manual(tx to xprience in kmns) blaja g bli sayur sensorg..gpun tmpt yg aku jd org gaji ni bkn nye bandar tp kampung..so mmg len ar suasana nye..suasana kg..kucing curi ikan.mmg slalu lar..hehehe..tp best ar..yg g bestnye ade wifi kt umah nie..wahahahaha itu amt penting coz kalo bosan2(de ke mase untuk bosan tu) aku surf internet lar...alhamdulillah

k r, BYE, SALAM~

DREAM CONCERT

made my day..

about 7 t0 10 time  i kept replaying this vid from the moment i discovered this video now..kyaaaaa..it seems that i'm under his spell..hohohoh..xde r cam tu sgt..tapi memang DAEBAK!!! He show that we can dancing while we skating and own our own wave..He shows that he also is not just an ordinary leader or that kinda boy group that keep on arising nowadays..He and his DBSK totally marks a higher standard..and well they deserved..i know my appa can do the best..hahaha,,I love how changmin show his support and bromance towards yunho..he know that yunho is his smile..i also love how yunho rocks the ice rinks with the moonwalks..at first i think it will be akwards but damn..he nail it..He such a show off person..but i like it..and he get the highest point.Good job appa!!...i just hope jaejoong,yoochun and xiah watch it and be supportive too..espsecially jaejoong how can you leave yunjae..hehehe..
                                                           this is his 1'st perfomance...

fun post!!

Betul ke benda ni?
aku un x tau..each person have their own character rite..
tapi aku suke bace or amik quiz p'snaliti ni..
hilgkn bosan mmg berbaloi..ade org kate colour mlmbgkn p'badi ssorg itu..
ye ke, aku un x pasti cuma mayb ade  yg btul n salah..
let see it..

PERSONALITI MENGIKUT WARNA KEGEMARAN

Biru – setia,murah rezeki, tingi kemahuan, berterus terng,jujur, pemaaf tetapi tegas.

Biru Muda -  rendah diri,tenang,suka mengalah,bijak, suka berkorban untuk orang lain.

Ungu– murah hati,lapang, inisiatif, tak suka diperintah, kurang beremosi,bijak namun kurang berjaya.

Hijau – damai, tidak suka kecoh,gemar berhias,patuh agama,kolot dan teguh.

Kuning – gemar membaca, suka ilmu, cerdas,tekun,tabah.

Merah – berani,emosional,tamak,suka bersantai.

Hitam – murung, suka mengelamun, menggoda, suka mengumpat, tenang, sabar tetapi suka memberontak.

Putih – tidak berprasangka,jujur, peramah, sopan, rendah diri, suka menolong.

Coklat – keibuan, halus budi pekerti, sopan, berhati hati, rendah diri.

yg aku highlight kat ats tu warna fav aku..brown blue black..hehehe.semua intial b..stlh aku examine,kite xleh p'cye 100%..bagi aku de yg same ngan psnaliti aku..hahaha..nak tau ke yg mane? xyah lar ye..sape yg tau aku nie cmne tau lar mne yg btol atau tidak..hehehe..

bye2..wassalam

a girls is always a girls..

Honestly bole ke aku jmpe love story camnie..:D..aku tau agak mustahil kot.sebab world is not a fairytale that we always dream bout ..but aku suka sgt ngan lirik lagu nie..kawaiiiiiinee..hehehe

You know that East Coast girls
Always say what we mean
And shy Southern boys
Often don't say a thing
But opposites attract
And you were drawn to me
And something 'bout you
Sparked my curiosity

They say that good guys
Usually don't come in first
Good girls fall for bad guys
But with us it's reverse
Not your average love song
Between you and me
The way the story unfolds
Defies gravity

Don't have to put on my makeup
I can leave out my contacts
Don't have to dress up for you
To think I'm beautiful
If I have a moody day
I don't have to act like I'm okay
I'm overdramatic
And you know how to handle it
Act natural, be emotional
Show my insecurities
And I love the way you love me
For who I am underneath
(Who I am underneath)

They say guys keep conversation
Short and sweet
And girls can talk for hours
Till they put you to sleep
But you're the one who
Checks up on me throughout the day
You stay on the phone
Even if there's nothing to say

Most guys that I know
Like to go out at night
But you leave that to me
Cause you're not that type
And we don't need

[ From: http://www.metrolyrics.com/underneath-lyrics-jojo.html ]

To do anything special to be happy
We got what we need
Make each other complete

Don't have to put on my makeup
I can leave out my contacts
Don't have to dress up for you
To think I'm beautiful
If I have a moody day
I don't have to act like I'm okay
I'm overdramatic
And you know how to handle it
Act natural, be emotional
Show my insecurities
And I love the way you love me
For who I am underneath
(Who I am underneath)

Layer by layer you unravel me
Sometimes I am rough around the edges
But you handle me gently
And layer by layer I uncover you
And discover a side of you
That I never knew underneath

Don't have to put on my makeup
I can leave out my contacts
Don't have to dress up for you
To think I'm beautiful
If I have a moody day
I don't have to act like I'm okay
I'm overdramatic
And you know how to handle it
Act natural, be emotional
Show my insecurities
And I love the way you love me
For who I am underneath
(Who I am underneath)

Who I am underneath
I love you for loving me
For who I am underneath

.....

forget everyting

there is some part in my life that i want to forget, the tears that they make to fall and the words that keep on haunted on me..truly they are the best memories ever but they are also the thorn of the roses...Thus i decide to make a new pathway in my life..walk out from the laugh that we share together..move on..i will change everything and i knew it also will change my life and my heart but i am the one that decide what my life could be..sorry, but i have to leave all of you..without a reason to say..you will never heard about me anymore..maybe all of you will think how cruel am i..but without all of you realize all of you keep making a burning hole in my heart..never try to heal it..one by one..i maybe look sweet and soft..i smile from the outside, cheer on everything kept on supporting but there is a side of myself that taught me how to be strong and told me that i have to move on if i want to see the light in my life..the memories we share maybe it will be the last memories ever..turn into a new leaf...sorry guys, but i have to make a choice..they will never understand me and never healed my wound..that is the some part that i learned about all of them..i have to suit myself but i also have to find the one that fit with me..Hope you guys happy in your life..if there is a luck,we will meet again..and maybe that time i will smile with full of my heart..

RESULT

Mcm gmbr kat ata tu cam tu lah aku sekrang...

Result pspm dah nak keluar..

aku rse mcm x ckp nafas, pejam mata nmpk result....

huhuhuhu...

AKU TAKUT...

Aku just mnx yang terbaik utk aku jer...

YA ALLAH BERIKANLAH HAMBAMU KEJAYAAN...AMINN.

CINTA??

love, ai , sarang , cinta, mawaddah ,amor, semuanya brmksd kpada kepada satu maksud yang sama iaitu perasaan yang timbul dalam hati tiap insan yang lahir dimukabumi ini. tapi betul2 ke kita faham apa maksud cinta ini..hmmmm..entahlah bagi aku pun kalau org tanye apa maksud cinta kat aku, aku rase akupun akan tediam sejenak dan sengih cam kerang busuk kat orang tu..cinta ni ada banyak definisi, depends kat orang lar..

tp satu benda yang sama iaitu perasaan..yang aku pasti pemahaman aku bagi cinta ni adalah suatu perasaan yang timbul dalam hati kita yang buatkan kita selalu ingin didekati dan disayangi..betul ke? Don't know..tapi cinta ni sebenarnya bukan hanya pada sesama insan, tetapi ianya boleh pada alam sekitar, harta benda(duniawi betul hehehe), agama , keamanan dan paling penting cinta kepada Tuhan..meh, sini aku senaraikan serbna serbi maksud cinta ini,,:

• "True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen."
  - La Rochefoucauld
• Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your heart, or burn down your house, you can never tell."
  - Unknown 
• "Love is like a violin. The music may stop now and then, but the strings remain forever."
  - Unknown
• "Love is like quicksand--the deeper you fall in, the harder it is to get out."
  - Unknown 
• "Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within reach of every hand."
  - Mother Teresa 
• "Love is like air... it's not important unless it's not there!"
  - Unknown 
• "Love is like a butterfly, it settles upon you when you least expect it."
  - Unknown 
• "Love is something eternal; the aspect may change, but not the essence."
  - Jeff Zinnert 
• "Love is like a knife, it can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that will last a lifetime."
  - Unknown 

actually there is a lot more but i think this is enough because like i say before everyone hve their own meaning of love..

tapi nak tanya lah ya..betul ke ada cinta sejati kat dunia ini..heys, worlds never own a fairtale we as human beings just created it..kalau dulu ya, aku mungkin boleh percaya tapi sekrang cinta akan sesama insan maksud aku lain jantina or fall in love make it short k mcm dah takda?

sebabnya setiap kali kita couple dgn org dengan sewenang-wenangnya kita ucpkn ucapan cinta walaupu n hanya couple hanya 3weeks..macam tak reasonable langsung..then clash..couple nagn org lain n then u said the same words to another person..hmmmm..pelik lah..aku mmg x pernah couple..tapi aku pun pernah jatuh suka not jatuh cinta kat orang..sma ke suka ngan cinta..confius aku dibuatnya..tapi itulah kes yang mmbuatkan aku agak kurang percaya pada cinta sejati sebab betapa murahnya word cinta itu..nak buat macam mana, to feel it we have to experienced it so,tunggulah jelah bile aku couple ye or myb kahwin terus..hehehe gatai..

lagi satu, aku selalu baca artikel melambak pasal cinta dalam islam..aku bukan alim ulama' k..tp aku agak setuju dalam setiap huraian yang dibuatnya kerana kebanyakan diorang bukan membabi buta jer buat artikel diorang mendalami Al-Quran..bukan mcam sestngah insan yang sesuka hati nak kondem orang..ya aku tahu every person needs love, but does it follow the right way..mak aku cakap cinta ni macma godaan, kdg2 melalaikan..bayangkan kita sanggup telefon2 berjam2, habiskan kredit kita tapi kenapa kita x sanggup spendkan solat sunat sikit atas tikar sejdah..kadang plak..cinta ni kalau tak betul boleh menghalalkan apa yang haram..macam pegang tangan, berpeluk2an n etc..

aku tak bole ckp sgt sbb aku tak couple lagi tp minta2 aku dijauhkan dari benda macam tu..

...

aku bole bagi a little bit of adab2  bercinta dalam islam yang aku baca..

Cinta Sebelum Kahwin

Cinta sebelum perkahwinan adalah cinta yang hadir daripada pergaulan harian dengan individu yang mempunyai kesamaan daripada segi cita rasa, peribadi, minat dan cara hidup. Ada kalanya cinta ini adalah cinta pandang pertama yang hadir secara mendadak, dan ia juga mungkin cinta yang dibina secara berperingkat melalui pertemuan dan pergaulan harian. Cinta sebelum perkahwinan biasanya tidak digalakkan dalam Islam, kerana dikhuatiri akan menjerumuskan pencinta itu ke kancah maksiat dan kelalaian dalam percintaan. Walau bagaimanapun, jika percintaan itu mempunyai matlamat suci, iaitu untuk membawa pencinta itu ke jinjing pelamin dan ikatan yang sah, maka sebagai pencinta yang beriman dan takutkan Allah, mereka haruslah menjaga dan memelihara perkara-perkara berikut:

1.Menjaga batas-batas pergaulan dengan tidak menyentuh sesama sendiri, tidak membuang masa berjam-jam dengan bertelefon atau berbual-bual, dan tidak menjadikan pergaulan mereka seperti suami isteri yang sudah sah dinikahkan. Mereka harus sedar dan berasa malu kerana mereka masih belum mempunyai sebarang hak ke atas satu sama lain.

2.Menghormati maruah dan harga diri masing-masing, dalam erti kata lain tidak membenarkan diri berdua-duaan dengan kekasih, kerana orang yang ketiga adalah syaitan. Di samping itu tidak berhias-hias atau menampakkan perhiasan di hadapan kekasih kerana dikhuatiri boleh menaikkan nafsu syahwat kekasih. Sebaik-baiknya sebarang pertemuan hendaklah melibatkan mahram atau ibu bapa yang mengawasi tingkah laku mereka.

3.Mendapat restu dan kebenaran dari ibu bapa adalah faktor kejayaan dalam percintaan sebelum perkahwinan. Restu daripada ibu bapa memudahkan proses pertunangan dan pernikahan yang akan berlangsung sebagai kelangsungan daripada cinta itu. Ibu bapa harus memainkan peranan dengan memastikan anak-anak tidak melupakan tanggungjawab peribadi dan batasan akhlak dan ajaran agama semasa bercinta.

4.Berdoa dan menunaikan solat hajat supaya percintaan yang dimiliki akan diredai dan diberkati Allah. Bermohon kepada Allah supaya cinta itu dapat membawa kepada kesempurnaan peribadi dan kesempurnaan agama dengan mendirikan rumah tangga dan memelihara kelangsungan cinta itu.

5.Sentiasa melakukan solat Istikharah bagi meneguhkan hati supaya orang yang dicintai itu adalah yang terbaik untuk menjadi pasangan hidup sehingga ke akhir hayat. Janganlah mencintai seseorang kerana harta, rupa atau keturunannya, tetapi cintailah dia kerana agama dan kemuliaan akhlaknya. Solat istikharah membantu supaya individu yang bercinta itu tidak menyesal dengan pilihannya dan dia wajiblah menjuruskan percintaannya itu untuk mendirikan rumah tangga yang terpelihara. Sekiranya dia bercinta tanpa niat untuk berumah tangga tetapi sekadar ingin bermain-main dan bersuka ria, maka percintaan itu adalah penipuan dan setiap perbuatan ke arah itu mencetuskan dosa dan kemurkaan Allah.

Setiap perbuatan cinta seperti menyentuh kekasih, bersalaman, berdating, berpelukan dan bercanda adalah dilarang sebelum perkahwinan. Sebagai hamba Allah yang takut kepada kemaksiatan dan kehinaan hidup di dunia, pasangan kekasih hendaklah berasa malu untuk mempamerkan ‘cinta terlarang’ mereka kerana belum lagi diiktiraf oleh perkahwinan yang dituntut oleh syarak. Tetapi sebaliknya, apabila diikat dengan ikatan perkahwinan yang sah, perbuatan-perbuatan itu mendatangkan pahala dengan syarat suami isteri itu berusaha untuk menjaga batasan akhlak dan kesopanan tingkah laku apabila berada di khalayak ramai.

Cinta Selepas Bertunang

Kebanyakan orang yang bercinta menyimpan hasrat untuk mempertahankan cintanya hingga ke jinjang pelamin. Ber-tunang adalah cara yang dilakukan bagi menyempurnakan janji untuk berkahwin. Ia adalah tanda pengabadian cinta yang suci dan tulus. Cinta dalam pertunangan besar ujiannya kerana godaan dan cabaran yang datang dari pelbagai pihak mampu merubah hati dan pendirian pasangan. Orang yang bertunang dikatakan ‘berdarah manis’ kerana mudah terjebak kepada gangguan perasaan dan terdedah kepada pelbagai cabaran. Oleh sebab itu pertunangan tidak digalakkan untuk tempoh yang lama mengikut adat masyarakat Melayu. Malah ia tidak perlu dihebohkan kepada semua orang kerana dikhuatiri pasangan itu berubah hati dan tidak jadi melangsungkan perkahwinan.

Bertunang tidak sama dengan berkahwin. Bertunang adalah ikatan tetapi ia belum diteguhkan oleh akad yang menghalal-kan segala perhubungan antara lelaki dan perempuan. Bertunang adalah tempoh suai kenal bukan tempoh memadu asrama. Maka orang yang sedang bertunang tidak boleh melanggar batas-batas agama kerana mereka masih belum ‘halal’ untuk sentuh-bersentuhan, cium-berciuman dan sebagainya. Pihak lelaki perlu menyedari mereka belum lagi menjadi suami, begitu juga pihak perempuan belum bergelar isteri. Maka berhati-hatilah dalam pergaulan kerana syaitan sentiasa menjadi orang ketiga yang tidak jemu menggoda dan cuba merosakkan cinta yang terbina.

Cinta Selepas Kahwin

Allah mengiktiraf cinta selepas perkahwinan sebagai yang terbaik dan sumber segala kesenangan dan kasih sayang sebagaimana yang dinyatakan di dalam Quran ayat 21 surah ar-Rum, “Dan di antara tanda-tanda kekuasaan-Nya ialah bahawa Dia menciptakan isteri-isteri bagimu dari kalangan kamu sendiri supaya kamu dapat hidup tenang bersama mereka dan diadakan-Nya cinta kasih sayang antara kamu. Sungguh, dalam yang demikian ada tanda-tanda bagi orang yang menggunakan fikiran”.

Cinta selepas perkahwinan adalah cinta yang diredai dan dituntut oleh ajaran Islam. Cinta seharusnya berputik mekar selepas pasangan suami isteri itu mendapat mandat yang agung untuk bercinta melalui ikatan yang sah dan diiktiraf oleh agama dan juga anggota masyarakat. Bagi menyuburkan cinta selepas perkahwinan, maka pasangan suami isteri haruslah menghormati hak-hak dan tanggungjawab kepada yang dicintai dengan penuh kecintaan dan kasih sayang. Antara cara-cara untuk menyuburkan rasa cinta sebegitu adalah:

1.Membuktikan cinta melalui ketaatan, kasih sayang, pengorbanan dan kesungguhan memuliakan pasangan dan rumah tangga yang dibina. Pasangan suami isteri hendaklah sentiasa saling hormat-menghormati, menghargai perasaan dan tutur kata, sentiasa mendoakan kesejahteraan keluarga dan berusaha memelihara amanah dan janji yang dibuat.

2.Melahirkan zuriat sebagai bukti cinta yang terjalin. Sekiranya ditakdirkan tidak mempunyai zuriat, suami hendaklah bersabar dan tidak terburu-buru untuk berkahwin lain. Seharusnya usaha dilipatkan gandakan untuk mendapatkan zuriat baik secara tradisional mahupun secara perubatan. Sekiranya tidak berhasil, bolehlah mengambil anak angkat sebagai langkah alternatif.

3.Mengasihi dan menghormati ahli keluarga pasangan suami isteri. Bagi mewujudkan keluarga yang harmonis, perhubungan kedua-dua belah pihak hendaklah dijaga dan dipelihara sebaik mungkin. Sesekali, hadiah dapat dijadikan penghubung kasih-sayang dan tidak lupa untuk bertanya khabar sekiranya tidak berkesempatan untuk menziarahi keluarga yang jauh.

Seharusnya Cinta…

Insan yang beriman sering kali meletakkan sandaran yang kuat dan kukuh kepada Allah. Maka, dalam soal percintaan, sering kali mereka bersikap tenang dan menyerah diri kepada ketentuan Allah. Ini adalah kerana mereka yakin cinta datang dari Allah dan hanya Dia sahaja yang dapat menganugerahkan atau menghapuskan cinta itu. Allah adalah Pencipta kepada cinta, dan setiap penciptaan-Nya ada matlamat dan sebab kewujudannya, yang sering kali tidak cuba difahami oleh manusia.

Hanya segelintir sahaja yang memahami hakikat didatangkan perasaan cinta itu, iaitu kembali kepada asal matlamat kejadian manusia; untuk menyembah dan melakukan ketaatan kepada Allah. Tidak kira apa bangsa ataupun agama sekalipun, hakikat cinta adalah kembali kepada mengagungkan dan membesarkan Tuhan yang menciptakan segala cinta. Agama Islam, Kristian, Buddha, Hindu serta lain-lain agama tetap mengupas persoalan cinta sebagai sumber kedamaian hati dan keamanan dunia.

Realiti cinta menuntut pengorbanan daripada setiap individu yang berani untuk melibatkan dirinya dalam percintaan. Cinta penuh dengan air mata, aliran perasaan yang amat deras dan getaran yang mengilukan hati. Cinta juga penuh dengan keindahan, keselesaan, kehalusan perasaan dan kenikmatan jasmani mahupun rohani. Ini adalah kerana, cinta tidak hanya melibatkan perasaan semula jadi antara lelaki dan perempuan sahaja tetapi juga melibatkan perhubungan antara manusia dan Tuhan, manusia dan alam, serta manusia dan perbuatan.

Oleh yang demikian, insan yang beriman dapat mengelakkan diri daripada melakukan kesilapan dalam pergaulan, kekecewaan dalam percintaan, dan kehancuran dalam kehidupan. Mereka memahami hakikat cinta dan jenis-jenis cinta yang wujud dalam dunia ini, lantas menjadikan fikiran mereka lebih terbuka dan bijaksana dalam menangani soal percintaan. Penderitaan, penyesalan, dan kebencian tidak dijadikan sebagai sumber yang boleh memudaratkan diri dan hati, tetapi sebaliknya sebagai sumber yang memberi kesedaran dan keinsafan akan hakikat kehidupan yang sebenarnya..

SEKIAN~SALAM SAYANG..SEDIKIT PERUBAHAN MEMBAWA BANYAK KEBAIKAN DARIPADA TIADA PERUBAHAN..

sedih!!hahaha

Hari nie saya sedih sangat,myb more to emo..hahahah..tp aku sendiri xtau nape..aku try to bear it..aku not the one that willing to share my feelings or emotion..nak tau nape
sebab, evrytime aku try nak share, people just avoid my expanation n try to not listening to it..it's not accusing k..aku bole tau dari gerak gri org tu n mata..eye will never hid the truth...but, dorg ske brcite hal dorg kat aku whether it's sad or happy story..hahahaha.pelik kan..ak ske gelak kalo aku nak nangis or tgh sedih..
a words sorry and a little bit of appreciation myb will help me lot..
due to that cases, aku jadi seorang yang agk keras dari hati but senang t'sntuh or cengeng..
i just remember that the experience  whether sorrow or happy that ALLAH give to me is a test for me..
aku harap aku tabah menghadapinya..
jap,aku masih tak cerita lagikan knape aku sedih..hhahahaha..hmmmm..xpayah larh..biar aku sorg je yg tanggung ye..hehee..Salam Sayang..

MUSIC ON ME 2

TIME TO LOV E

MY HEART BEATING

CHU

musin on me..

Bruno mars


just the way you are 


Oh her eyes, her eyes
Make the stars look like they're not shining
Her hair, her hair
Falls perfectly without her trying

She's so beautiful
And I tell her every day

Yeah I know, I know
When I compliment her
She wont believe me
And its so, its so
Sad to think she don't see what I see

But every time she asks me do I look okay
I say

When I see your face
There's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you're amazing
Just the way you are

Her lips, her lips
I could kiss them all day if she'd let me
Her laugh, her laugh
She hates but I think its so sexy

She's so beautiful
Bruno Mars Just The Way You Are lyrics found on http://www.directlyrics.com/bruno-mars-just-the-way-you-are-lyrics.html

And I tell her every day

Oh you know, you know, you know
Id never ask you to change
If perfect is what you're searching for
Then just stay the same

So don't even bother asking
If you look okay
You know I say

When I see your face
There's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you're amazing
Just the way you are

The way you are
The way you are
Girl you're amazing
Just the way you are

When I see your face
There's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you're amazing
Just the way you are

Indigo

Istimewa 

Tiada puisi atau lagu
Tiada potret tiada ragu
Yang dapat ku ilham seindahmu
Nyata kau satu dalam berjuta
Wahai jelita kau istimewa

Walau ku kembara sedunia
Walau ketemu ramai wanita
Nyata kau tiada tandingannya
Seikhlas hati aku menyinta
Kau istimewa, teristimewa

1
Daku berikrar
Wahai maharaniku
Bina mahligai syahdu
Hanya engkau dan aku di situ

Tiada mimpi atau fantasi
Tiada rasa lebih berseri
Semekar murni hatimu sayang
Siang dan malam, aku terbayang
Kau istimewa, buat ku tenang

1

Daku berikrar
Wahai maharaniku
Bina mahligai syahdu
Hanya engkau dan aku di situ

Ingin ku bawa kau ke awana
Ingin memadu kasih asmara
Sepanjang hayatku curah cinta
Sebenar-benar ucapan kata
Kau istimewa oh! Percayalah
Ku perlu cinta dari wanitaku nan istimewa
Beriku cintamu nan istimewa